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I’ve decided for now to leave the issue of cancer. I have learned that if you speak of your own cancer, the attention span is short, before it is assumed that you are just feeling sorry for yourself. This is especially true in religious circles. That stigma, ironically, is one of the cultural traits that…
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This is part of an unedited chapter from the book I am working on. Since the last time I shared a somewhat narcissistic story, which some people might read as “how people wronged me,” I want to stay away from that theme by looking at the caregiver. I also wanted to end my postings about…
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I will do one or two more postings about my myeloma, and then I will move on. I am doing well right now, and it gives me the space to live in denial, so I would rather not talk about those darkest of days. If you have not read the previous post, please go back…
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Again, for the sake of space, I am not just copying and posting from my work in progress, my book, but summaries from chapters. This is part I; I will complete this thought next time in part II. In cosmology, there is a phenomenon called gravitational lensing. It is where there is a large concentration…
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This is not a word-for-word excerpt but more of a summary of a chapter. Whether or not you say “damn” when you stub your toe is trivial, even silly on the surface, but it has a complex history and even philosophical implications. I grew up in the Bible Belt of Tennessee’s Appalachian landscape. A sociology…
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I’m trying to stop writing from a negative perspective. By sounding negative, I am engaging in hypocrisy, as in my real life, I am in my best years. I am profoundly thankful that my awful cancer is at bay and my life is 80% normal. But sometimes something moves me, positive or negative, that haunts…
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I loathe religion. If someone offered me a free cruise around the world, billed as a “religious cruise,” I would say no, thank you, preferring to have a root canal or a bowel resection in its stead. It isn’t because I’m not familiar with religion, but because I am. I grew up in the Bible…
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I mentioned that a couple of months ago, a new group of readers of this blog, about a thousand of them, showed up. I studied what they were reading, and they were—oddly—gravitating to my journey with multiple myeloma, especially the first three years when my life was a living hell. I am hesitant to write…
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I just published my latest episode (29) of the Healing Hut. On this episode, I am making baseboards for old wood, creating Bavarian balusters for the deck, and building the staircase for the loft. The last episode had 700-1000 views, so thank you so much for your interest. I will try to improve these as…
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Because, as I’ve said, there is an interest in my myeloma journey, I want to post another excerpt, a shorter one this time, from the book I’m working on. From: How Cancer Taught Me to Swear, Chapter Seventeen, In Search for Human Life: I’ve always had a temper, yet fortunately, tempered. I have also tried…